Sep 29 | Thoughts on Life

I have a real heart for wanting to help, to give words of encouragement or to simply lend a listening ear. Once again, because these posts are few on Simply Frugal, but are a part of my journey, I’m sharing because I want to be an encouragement to those who may need it.
This past weekend, I was faced with an unfortunate circumstance, one that I’ve had to face in the past unfortunately. The circumstance has once again brought up questions of whether or not I can actually be content with what I have in my life right now. As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve struggled with being content but my fear of not seeing to fruition the idea of what I think my life should look like has held me back from experiencing life to the fullest. Fear is debilitating.
This past weekend has reminded me once again that life isn’t all about coupons, free stuff and saving money. It’s about finding those that can sit around you and lend you support. Whether it be someone that waits with you for hours, or someone that lets you cry on their shoulder or someone that invites you over for tea. Or even someone that gives you encouragement because of something they’ve had to work though in their own life. It’s those moments that make life wonderful. Those are the times when you realize you can make it through with what you have at that moment.
Through my trial this weekend, I’ve been so encouraged by good friends and family. I’m starting to slowly make strides towards letting go of my fears of what I may never have and starting towards a life of living more intentionally for the sake of joy.
Friends, if you need encouragement today, especially, (but not only) those of you that have undergone the pain of miscarriage, can I ask you to reach out to me? Or find a friend you can lean on? Without a tribe of support, life can be really daunting. 🙁
Jun 20 | Money Saving Tips, Thoughts on Life
This was originally published February 2012. It still rings true in my life today, so I thought I’d repost it!
I’m not entirely sure this post will come as a shock to those of you who have been reading Simply Frugal for awhile, but it’s been on my mind for quite some time now!
Quite honestly, I don’t really get the “extreme” couponing thing. I mean, I get it, but I personally don’t see the benefit it could have for my family. And by no means am I saying that it isn’t a great thing for other families! Sure, I post about coupons and deals all day long, and I really enjoy getting great deals with coupons, but I am by no means anywhere near extreme. (Maybe most of you are the same way?) Here are the reasons I’m not an Extreme Couponer:
Goes against what I’m trying to accomplish in my life: Simplicity
For me, it’s another thing to add to the to-do list. It takes time. Hours to plan a massive shop. And then you actually have to go shopping after all that planning!
Since simplicity in my home means having less stuff, a years worth of supplies/groceries really defeats the purpose of extreme couponing for me. This leads me to my next reason:
There will always be a sale and there will always be coupons available
Items tend to go on sale for rock bottom prices every 6 weeks – three months. This fact alone keeps me from going crazy stocking up. I only buy what will get us through until the next sale. If we run out, we run out! Then there are the necessities that always seem to be on sale week after week. Can you think of a week recently where there hasn’t been toilet paper on sale? Or pasta?
I don’t have much room for stockpiling
We live in a two bedroom condo. We’re about to have a baby. Space is at a premium. Enough said?
I can’t be bothered
If I’m being honest, I really can’t be bothered to spend all the time and effort it takes to have a shopping trip where I save over 50% off my bill. (or something like that) Mostly because I don’t buy many of the products that have coupons and I’d much rather spend my time doing other things. 🙂
I like to save money by not shopping
Using coupons and getting stuff for free still comes with a price tag. You’ll always pay taxes on the full price of the item, before coupons are deducted. Sometimes I think people buy things just because they have a coupon and the item will be super cheap or free. They don’t think about all the tax dollars they’re throwing away on an item that they won’t use. Donating items could be used as an argument as long as they’re okay with the fact that those items were not entirely free (taxes, gas money and their time). I love hearing about those that do donate items since there still is a bit of sacrifice in doing so, when you take into consideration the time and money that it does involve.
Of course, I do have to go shopping once in a while. I like to go once a week on Mondays. Usually to only one store, the store with the best deals that week. Since I menu plan, shop the sales and compare for best value, I’m able to see significant savings each week as I only buy what I need to get us through until next Monday. I spend about $60 a week on groceries and household basics. Quite often less than that because of the small quantity of items I do have in the stockpile.
I value health
On paper it looks like I “saved” money, but I really may have just come home with a bunch of processed foods that will sit in my pantry for months. I’ve been seeing coupons for more healthful products lately, but the majority of coupons out there are still for processed or chemical laden products. I’ll admit that I do use coupons occasionally for some convenience items, (such as our favourite Ristorante pizzas!) but for the most part I buy fresh ingredients and the parts to create a meal from scratch because I value our health over saving a buck. I’ve decided not to use coupons on things we normally don’t use just to get things cheap or for free.
Here’s how I do use coupons:
- I do order most/all of the coupons I post about on Simply Frugal, but only so I can give some of them away to you. (I do giveaways over at the Simply Frugal Facebook page once in a while)
- I see most of my coupon savings on things like toilet paper and toothpaste.
- I only use a few coupons each shopping trip. Sometimes, I don’t use any because all I’m buying is produce and milk!
- I really like the free product coupons. Who doesn’t? 🙂 Those are the ones I use most.
Did you find it shocking that I’m not an extreme couponer considering all the time I put into posting coupons and deals? How do you use coupons? Do you enjoy the thrill of extreme couponing?
Note: Since this post was actually hard for me to write but has been on my mind since the Extreme Couponing TLC show started, I felt it was necessary for me to write the following due to the nature of Simply Frugal: In no way were the words I wrote above meant to be taken as condemnation. Each family is different. Each person is different. My way is not the right way, but it is the right way for our family. We’re all just doing the best we can do with the resources we have! I have nothing against extreme couponing, it just isn’t for me!
Dec 6 | Thoughts on Life

For those of you visiting Simply Frugal today, you’ll notice a brand new look!!
I’m soooo excited to finally have something professionally done that I think looks fantastic! The last design was something I figured out on my own and I was never really a fan how how it looked. It did the job, but it wasn’t pretty!
One of my main goals was to have the site easy for you to navigate and easy for you to find the freshest content in the top categories. I think this was accomplished!
Greg from Engine 1 Media went above and beyond my expectations for the design. Didn’t he make it look amazing?
What do you think of the new changes? (if you’re reading this in an email, click over to see the new design!)
Jun 8 | Thoughts on Life
Hi all!
We’re headed out of town for the weekend and I decided we’re taking the weekend off from regular posting until Monday! We’ll be attending a wedding and visiting with family which will take up most of our time.
Rather than stress about getting the good deals up and running, we’ve decided to leave you with a couple of scheduled posts. The final post in the Frugal Parenting series and Links Worth Sharing, which will both be up later today. And as always, you can go back and browse old posts to see if you missed anything!
If you follow Simply Frugal on Facebook, I imagine I’ll be leaving a few Instagram pictures here and there of our time away.
See you on Monday!
Apr 23 | Thoughts on Life
I don’t normally post contests here on the website, but this one involves Simply Frugal! (and I’m not ashamed of some self promotion for the blog! hehe)
webSaver.ca has just launched a new contest. Show your support for SimplyFrugal.ca by voting for us as your favourite coupon blog, and enter for your chance to win a MacBook Air!
Head on over to the webSaver.ca Facebook page to vote!
We’d be totally honoured if you voted for Simply Frugal! Send all your friends to vote and for a chance to win a great prize!
Contest ends May 31, 2012.
Jul 25 | Thoughts on Life
Hi Everyone!
You might be thinking things look a bit different around these parts. You’re right! I had a few bugs I needed to resolve, so I decided to give Simply Frugal a bit of a makeover.
Things are definitely not how I would like them to be when it’s completely finished. But with the knowledge I have, this is the best I can do! I’ll be looking at hiring the services of a designer to fix up a couple of things.
But I guess for now, what do you think? (if you’re reading this in an email or RSS reader you’ll have to click over) It’s still basically the same idea 🙂